How to Have Fun in Your 40s: Movement, Connection, and Confidence in Springville, Utah County
- Shalay Andrus
- Aug 26
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 13
How to Have Fun in Your 40s: Movement, Connection, and Confidence in Springville, Utah County
If you’re in your 40s, 50s, or 60s, life might look different than it did just a few years ago. The kids may be grown, your career might be stable, and the constant hustle of early adulthood may have slowed down. But somewhere in the quiet, you might be asking yourself… “What’s next for me?”
You’ve given so much to everyone else for years. Now it’s time to give something back to yourself.
At Dance to Uplift in Springville, Utah County, I help women over 40 and empty nesters rediscover how to have fun in this stage of life—through movement, connection, and confidence-building activities like West Coast Swing and intentional breathwork.
My Story: From Survival Mode to Joy
I know exactly what it feels like to be busy but unfulfilled. Years ago, during my divorce, every day felt like a to-do list. I was showing up for everyone—kids, work, community—but I wasn’t showing up for myself. The spark I once had was dim.
Then I stepped onto a West Coast Swing dance floor for the first time in years. The music started, my partner smiled, and I felt something I hadn’t in a long time—pure joy. The kind that bubbles up and makes you laugh without thinking.
From that moment, dance became more than a hobby. It became my space to breathe, connect, and remember who I was beyond all my roles and responsibilities. It reminded me that fun isn’t something you age out of—it’s something you nurture.
Why Fun Matters in Midlife
Fun isn’t frivolous—it’s essential. According to the Mayo Clinic, activities that bring you joy:
Lower stress levels
Improve mood and emotional resilience
Increase energy
Strengthen relationships
When you stop making time for fun, you risk slipping into patterns of stress, isolation, or burnout—even if life looks “good” on the outside.
The Power of Movement for Mental Health
When you move your body—especially in ways that bring joy—your brain releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins. These boost mood, reduce anxiety, and help you feel more connected to the present moment.
At Dance to Uplift, we combine movement for mental health with mindful breathwork. It’s not just about learning dance steps—it’s about leaving class feeling lighter, happier, and more connected to yourself.
How Dance Builds Confidence
One of the most beautiful transformations I see in my students is the shift from self-consciousness to self-assurance.
In the first class, many people hesitate, laugh nervously, or apologize when they miss a step. By week six, they’re smiling, moving with the music, and holding themselves taller—both on and off the dance floor.
Confidence doesn’t come from getting every step “right.” It comes from showing up, trying something new, and realizing you’re capable of more than you thought.
Why Dance is the Perfect “Fun” for 40+ in Utah County
If you’re looking for something new and exciting in Springville, Mapleton, Spanish Fork, or the surrounding Utah County area, dance offers a unique mix of:
Social connection – Meet new friends who are also looking for meaningful activities.
Creativity – Express yourself through music and movement.
Physical wellness – Improve balance, flexibility, and coordination in a low-impact way.
Mental engagement – Learn new skills that challenge your brain.
Unlike a workout class, dance feels like play. Unlike a purely social night out, you leave with a skill you can enjoy for years.
My Classes: Designed for Joy, Connection, and Healing
Move with Meaning
A beginner-friendly West Coast Swing series for singles, couples, and friends. You’ll learn foundational steps, musicality, and how to connect with a partner. We start with breathwork to help you release stress and settle into the present moment.
Play Passionately
A ladies-only styling and expression class for women who want to move with confidence, embrace their femininity, and reconnect with their playful side. Includes grounding breathwork and mindfulness practices.
Other Ways to Have Fun in Your 40s in Utah County
While dance is my passion, I encourage my students to explore all kinds of activities that bring joy. Here are some local favorites:
Art classes at the Springville Museum of Art
Live music nights in downtown Provo
Scenic walks at Canyon View Park in Spanish Fork
Couples’ cooking classes in Orem
Local theater performances at the Covey Center
The key isn’t what you choose—it’s making space for it in your life.
FAQ: Fun, Fitness, and Finding Your People
Do I need to be fit to start dancing? No. My classes are gentle, adaptable, and focused on connection rather than intense physical demands.
What if I don’t know anyone? Perfect! Many students come alone and leave with new friends.
Is this for beginners? Yes. No prior dance experience is required for either class.
Why Springville is the Perfect Home for Dance to Uplift
Springville is a city that values art, connection, and community. Being in the heart of Utah County means students can easily join from nearby cities like Mapleton, Spanish Fork, Salem, and Provo.
I intentionally keep classes small so you never feel lost in the crowd. The in-home studio environment makes it warm, personal, and safe—perfect for women and couples who want more than a generic class.
Your Invitation to Start Having Fun Again
If you’ve been wondering how to have fun in your 40s (or 50s, or 60s), the answer is simple: start moving, start connecting, and start saying yes to yourself.
At Dance to Uplift in Springville, Utah County, we create more than dance classes. We create spaces for laughter, healing, and rediscovery. Whether you join Move with Meaning or Play Passionately, you’ll leave with more than steps—you’ll leave with stories, friendships, and a renewed sense of you.
Learn more and register: www.dancetouplift.com
Book a free consultation: Schedule here
Your next chapter of joy is waiting. Live in love. Move with Meaning. Play Passionately.
Shalay

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